“The party don’t start till I walk in….”
Photo from TPM
It is unfair to ask a woman to leave aside her personal experience and discuss feminist issues in the abstract. You are discussing the stuff of her life. Asking her to “not make it personal” is to ask her to wrench her womanhood from her personhood. Don’t play Devil’s advocate. Seriously. Just don’t.
I disagree with the basic premises of ninety percent of these fears, as perhaps could have been predicted from the fact that two of the first ten people they chose to ask study evopsych. (GOOD LORD, NUMBER NINE, GET A GRIP.)
- Hannah, self-certified really smart person
ETA Wait, I’m not done, this is too dumb. We live in massively the most literate society in history, and we use writing with such enormous frequency and flexibility that it’s finally approaching speech; the idea that this will “ruin writing” is unbelievably absurd. The “underpopulation bomb” and the “dearth of desirable mates” and the problem of Chinese eugenics are all racist and sexist concepts. Every theory that predicts the human race becoming stupider or somehow mentally “dulled” in any way is just flat-out not supported by the evidence. Lord, these people. There are a couple who are like “climate change!” and “people will stop dying!” and those are perfectly fair, and everyone else is like “being a successful well-educated white person stresses me out! People might not want to fuck me! People might not like what I like! Technology! Kids these days!!!!!!!!”
33. Men. –Helen Fisher, biological anthropologist
On the other hand, shout-out to my girl Helen Fisher.
lol evolutionary psychologists being considered smart people
OTOH, James O'Donnell of Georgetown and Robert Provine of UMBC (128 and 129) should be pals if they’re not already. They can found the No Worries Society.
eta: what drunky wrote this list?
‘72. “I worry we have yet to have a conversation about what seems to be a developing “new normal” about the presence of screens in the playroom and kindergarten” –Sherry Turkle, pshcyhologist, MIT’
oh ok
From the petition:
The United States is the only developed country in the world without paid maternity leave. Forcing families to choose between going without a salary and having a baby is unethical. Forcing mothers to give up caring for their newborns because they are going broke is not acceptable.
Yeah guys some of you might remember that infographic that went around tumblr a while ago that listed countries according to their paid maternity leave, well here’s your chance to help remove that big ‘0 weeks paid maternity leave’ from the United States.
This petition’s goal is 100,000 you can do that tumblr!
It depresses me too much to think about how different my life would be if paid maternity were a thing here.
We should get it retroactively. ;)
Everyone should sign this.
EVERYONE.
This will undoubtedly affect someone you know, even if it never affects you personally. 0 days required paid leave is ridiiiiiculous and archaic and all that other good stuff.
A study showed that wealthy people show less compassion physiologically (heart rate, etc.) when showed pictures of poor people than people who aren’t wealthy who responded emotionally.
People who make less than $50,000 a year donate about 8% of their disposable income which is about twice what wealthy people (making $200,000+) donate.
In short, people who are not rich donate more and care more about low income people than rich people.
Obvs.
Water wet.
“Teenage girls are the worst”, said the white 20something man, rolling his eyes at a demographic with some of the highest rates of sexual abuse, eating disorders, and self-mutilation. “Ugh, it’s not like they have any REAL problems.”
“…although it is better than it was, having been in and around politics for many years now, there is still a double standard. And it is a double standard that exists from the trivial, like what you wear, to the incredibly serious, like women can’t vote, women can’t run for office, women are not supposed to be in the public sphere. But there is a spectrum of the double standard, and of the both legal and cultural barriers to respect for women, for the full participation of women…
I do want to see more women compete for the highest positions in their countries, and I will do what I can…I will do everything I can to make sure that women compete at the highest levels not only in the United States, but around the world, because I take seriously your question, and I think it’s not only for young women; it’s for young men, it’s for our future.
We have to break down these attitudes that kind of pigeonhole and stereotype people. Like what does a leader look like; well, a leader looks like somebody who’s a man…
…women are subjecting themselves to the political process, which is never easy anywhere, and I want to see more of that. You have to have a thick skin. I will tell you that. But it’s really important that women are out there competing at the highest levels of government and business not only to demonstrate the capacity and quality of women’s leadership, but also to take advantage of the talents of every person we have.”
- Outgoing Secretary of State Hillary Clinton
You’re welcome.
That second photo is one of the best things I have ever seen in my life.
What I imagine is her inner monologue for these pictures.
First pic: Shove it up your ass.
Second pic: Go fuck yourself.
Third pic: I can’t with you right now.
Fourth pic: I will flip this fucking table.